5 SIGNS YOUR LOVED ONE MAY BE AN ALCOHOLIC
If you think that a loved one or friend has a drinking problem but you are unsure, it can be a very distressing situation. You don't want to discuss alcohol addiction treatment when they don't need it, but you also don't want to ignore the situation if they are becoming addicted.
To add to the problem, alcoholics often try to hide their addiction because they are ashamed or embarrassed, or because they are scared someone might suggest they stay away from drinking.
Here are five signs that might indicate an alcohol addiction problem.
1) Irrational moodiness
Alcohol can make people happy at first, but can also lead to irrational moodiness as the effects wear off or during times of sobriety. They can seem physically stressed when they are sober or when they are unable to get alcohol. They may have mood swings as they try to fight the addiction or as they succumb to it. Furthermore, the guilt and embarrassment might be causing them additional stresses that may be visible in their behaviour.
A person may start to become more isolated too, because they are ashamed of how the alcohol has taken control and they don't want people to notice.
2) Absence from work
An alcoholic might begin to take time off work due to having late nights or because they want to drink during the day. They may also fall asleep at work and their decision-making skills may be affected. Their quality of work may suffer, as may their relationships with colleagues.
3) They avoid situations where alcohol won't be present
If someone has alcohol addiction, they struggle with even the thought of not being able to reach for a drink. The idea of putting themselves in a situation where alcohol isn't present is not an option.
Also, if an alcoholic goes without drinking for too long, they may experience intense and even dangerous withdrawal symptoms. Anxiety, tremors and sweats are common signs of withdrawal, and these may become unbearable for the person. As such, they may begin to avoid situations—even work or college—where alcohol isn't acceptable. If a social event is being held and there isn't alcohol present, they may avoid it even if it's an important family occasion.
4) They can really hold their drink
Many people brag about how much alcohol they can hold when they’re out with friends. This bragging doesn't necessarily mean the person is an alcoholic – it can just be part of an unfortunate drinking culture. However, if a person does seem to genuinely have a high tolerance to alcohol—whether they're bragging about it or not—this can actually be a sign of alcoholism.
Alcoholics slowly build up an immunity to the effects of alcohol, meaning that they have to drink more and more just to feel drunk. This leads them to drink heavier. This can quickly turn into an addiction problem if the cycle isn't broken.
5) They hide alcohol
If someone has an alcohol problem, they may start hiding it in their bag or sneaking it into places where it isn't allowed. They may also hide it from loved ones to try and make out they aren't drinking or they're cutting back.
If your friend or loved one is displaying any of these signs, it is wise to have a quiet word with them. Gently explain that you feel they might have a problem and that maybe they need alcohol addiction treatment. Make sure they understand that you are only advising them because you care for them, and not because you're judging them.
Do not expect instant results or hold it against them if they don't respond positively. Remember, they are addicted and not in control. Do not take it personally either. Just remain calm and ensure you are there for the person when the time is right.
If and when they are ready to seek alcohol addiction treatment, then please get in touch with us. We can provide expert care to help them beat their addiction.